The Sacraments
Walking with you through every stage of life.
The sacraments are visible signs of God's love and grace throughout our lives. Whether you're celebrating new life, preparing for marriage, returning to the Church or seeking prayer and support, we'd be delighted to help.
Wherever you are on your journey of faith, we're here to walk alongside you. Select a sacrament below to learn more about preparation, key information and how to get started.
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Baptism
Welcoming your child into God's family
Baptism is the beginning of the Christian journey. Through Baptism, we are welcomed into God's family and become members of the Church. It is a joyful celebration of faith, hope and new life, and one of the most special moments in a family's life.
At St Mary's, we're delighted to accompany parents and families as they prepare for this important occasion. Whether this is your first child or you're returning to church after many years, you'll receive a warm welcome and gentle guidance throughout the process.
Who can be baptised?
Children can be baptised from infancy onwards. If your child is older, or if you're an adult wishing to be baptised, please contact the Parish Office—we'll be happy to discuss the most appropriate preparation for you.
Arranging a Baptism
The first step is simply to contact the Parish Office. We'll explain the preparation process, discuss available dates and answer any questions you may have.
Preparation sessions are held throughout the year and are designed to help parents and godparents understand the meaning of Baptism and the promises made during the celebration.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to live in the parish?
Not necessarily. Please contact us and we'll be happy to advise.
Do both parents need to be Catholic?
No. Every family's circumstances are different, and we're happy to discuss these with you.
How many godparents do I need?
Traditionally, a child has at least one practising Catholic godparent. We'll explain the requirements during the preparation process.
If you'd like to arrange a Baptism or simply ask a question, please contact the Parish Office—we'd be delighted to help.
Whatever stage you're at, we'd be delighted to help. If you'd like to find out more or begin preparing for this sacrament, please get in touch with the Parish Office.
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Preparing to Receive Jesus in the Eucharist
First Holy Communion is a joyful milestone in a child's journey of faith. It is the first time they receive Jesus in the Eucharist and marks an important step in their relationship with Christ and the Church.
At St Mary's, children prepare through a parish programme that helps them grow in their understanding of God's love, prayer and the Mass.
Who Can Take Part?
Children are usually prepared when they are in Year 3 or above, although this may vary depending on individual circumstances.
Parents are encouraged to take an active role throughout the preparation, helping children grow in faith both at home and within the parish community.
Preparation
Preparation usually begins several months before the celebration and includes regular sessions for children and families, together with regular attendance at Sunday Mass.
Families are also warmly encouraged to take part in Children's Liturgy during the 9:30am Sunday Mass. This gives children the opportunity to hear and explore the Gospel in an engaging, age-appropriate way, helping them grow in their understanding of the Mass and the Eucharist as they prepare to receive Holy Communion.
Dates and registration information are announced each year through the parish newsletter and website.
Frequently Asked Questions
When does the programme begin?
Preparation normally starts each autumn. Please contact the Parish Office for this year's dates.
Does my child need to be baptised?
Yes. If your child has not yet been baptised, please contact us and we'll explain the next steps.
Can my child join if we attend another parish?
Please speak with the Parish Office and we'll advise according to your circumstances.
Growing in Faith Together
Preparing for First Holy Communion is about much more than attending sessions – it's about growing together in faith as a family. We warmly encourage families to join us for Sunday Mass each week, where children are invited to take part in Children's Liturgy during the 9:30am Mass. It's a wonderful opportunity for children to hear and explore the Gospel in an engaging, age-appropriate way while becoming more familiar with the Mass and the life of our parish.
We're always happy to answer any questions and support your family on this special journey. If you'd like to find out more or begin preparing for First Holy Communion, please get in touch with the Parish Office.
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Strengthened by the Holy Spirit
Confirmation deepens the grace received at Baptism and strengthens us through the gifts of the Holy Spirit. It encourages us to live our faith with confidence and become active members of the Church.
At St Mary's, Confirmation preparation is a welcoming journey of faith, prayer and friendship.
Who can be confirmed?
Young people who have been baptised and have already received First Holy Communion are invited to join the parish Confirmation programme.
Adults wishing to be confirmed are also warmly welcome and can prepare through our Becoming Catholic (RCIA) programme.
Preparation
Preparation includes regular sessions exploring prayer, Scripture, the Holy Spirit and life as a Catholic today.
Confirmation is celebrated by the Bishop as part of a joyful parish celebration.
Frequently Asked Questions
How old do I need to be?
Confirmation preparation is usually offered to secondary school-aged young people.
I've missed Confirmation—can I still receive it as an adult?
Absolutely. We'd be delighted to help you prepare.
How do I register?
Simply contact the Parish Office for details of the next programme.
If you'd like to know more about Confirmation, we'd love to hear from you.
Whatever stage you're at, we'd be delighted to help. If you'd like to find out more or begin preparing for this sacrament, please get in touch with the Parish Office.
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Beginning a lifetime together
Marriage is a beautiful vocation in which a man and woman freely give themselves to one another before God. The Sacrament of Marriage celebrates love, commitment and God's presence at the heart of family life.
We're honoured to help couples prepare for this joyful occasion.
Planning your wedding
If you're considering getting married at St Mary's, please contact the Parish Office as early as possible—ideally at least six months before your proposed wedding date.
This allows time for preparation, paperwork and marriage preparation sessions.
Marriage Preparation
Preparation helps couples reflect on the meaning of Christian marriage and prepare for the promises they will make on their wedding day.
We'll guide you through every stage of the process.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do we both need to be Catholic?
Not always. Please contact us to discuss your circumstances.
Can we get married if we've been married before?
Every situation is different. We'd be happy to talk through your circumstances.
Can we choose our own readings and music?
Yes. We'll help you plan a meaningful and prayerful celebration.
We'd be delighted to accompany you as you prepare for your wedding day.
Whatever stage you're at, we'd be delighted to help. If you'd like to find out more or begin preparing for this sacrament, please get in touch with the Parish Office.
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Exploring the Catholic faith
Whether you've been asking questions for years or have only recently begun exploring Christianity, you're very welcome at St Mary's.
Our Becoming Catholic programme (often known as RCIA) offers a relaxed and friendly opportunity to discover the Catholic faith alongside others on a similar journey.
There is no pressure or expectation—simply an invitation to explore.
Who is it for?
The programme is suitable for:
Adults who have never been baptised
Christians from other traditions
Baptised Catholics wishing to complete Confirmation and First Holy Communion
Anyone who is simply curious about the Catholic faith
What happens?
We meet regularly throughout the year to explore Scripture, prayer, the teachings of the Church and the meaning of Christian life.
There is plenty of opportunity to ask questions, share experiences and learn at your own pace.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to become Catholic?
No. You're welcome simply to come along and explore.
Can I bring someone with me?
Of course.
I'm nervous about coming on my own.
Many people feel exactly the same. You'll receive a warm welcome from the very first meeting.
If you're wondering whether God might be calling you to explore the Catholic faith, we'd love to meet you.
Whatever stage you're at, we'd be delighted to help. If you'd like to find out more or begin preparing for this sacrament, please get in touch with the Parish Office.
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God's healing presence in times of illness and need
When we experience illness, frailty or difficult times, the Church is here to offer prayer, comfort and practical support.
Whether you or a loved one would benefit from a visit, Holy Communion at home, or the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick, our clergy and parish community are here to help.
No one should face illness or hardship alone.
How can we help?
If you are unable to attend Mass because of illness, age or limited mobility, we may be able to arrange for Holy Communion to be brought to your home or care home.
If you or someone you know is seriously ill, preparing for surgery, or becoming increasingly frail through age, please contact the Parish Office so that a priest can arrange a visit and, where appropriate, celebrate the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick.
You're not alone
Our priests and parish community are always happy to listen, pray with you and offer support during difficult times.
If you know someone who would appreciate a visit, please let us know.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the Anointing of the Sick?
The Anointing of the Sick is a sacrament of healing, strength and peace. Through prayer and anointing with holy oil, Christ offers comfort and grace to those facing serious illness, surgery or the challenges of advancing age.
When should I ask for the Anointing of the Sick?
The sacrament is offered to anyone who is seriously ill, preparing for a significant operation, or becoming increasingly frail through age. It is best to request the sacrament before an illness becomes critical whenever possible.
Can someone visit me at home?
Yes. Please contact the Parish Office if you would like a priest or a parish visitor to arrange a visit.
Can Holy Communion be brought to my home?
Yes. We'd be delighted to arrange this where possible.
Need to speak with someone?
Whatever you're going through, please know that you are not alone.
If you or someone you know would appreciate a visit, prayer or Holy Communion at home, please contact the Parish Office. We'd be honoured to support you.
Explore
Choose the sacrament you're interested in and read about what's involved.
Get in touch
Contact the parish office - we're always happy to answer your questions.
Prepare
We'll guide you through every step from preparation to celebration.
"The sacraments are God's gift to accompany us throughout every stage of life."
FAQ
How do I arrange a Baptism?
Contact the Parish Office to begin the process. We'll explain everything you need to know, including preparation sessions, available dates and the next steps for your family.
Can adults become Catholic?
Absolutely. Every year adults join the Catholic Church through our RCIA (Becoming Catholic) programme. Whether you're simply curious or ready to begin your journey of faith, we'd love to welcome you.
When are preparation courses held?
Preparation sessions are held throughout the year as required. Dates vary depending on the sacrament, so please contact the Parish Office for the latest information.
How far in advance should we book a wedding?
We recommend contacting us at least six months before your proposed wedding date. This allows plenty of time for preparation, paperwork and marriage preparation courses.
Do I have to live in the parish?
Not necessarily. We'd be happy to discuss your circumstances and advise you on the best next steps.
Do I need to be Catholic?
Not necessarily. Different sacraments have different requirements. If you're unsure, please contact us—we'll be happy to explain what's involved and help you explore the next steps.